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The most recent blow in the course of 48 hours was finding him texting a former friend of mine that slept with my boyfriend back in college. One of my best matches, at 80 percent, was Dancespirit, which sorta goes to show right there the matching system was broken. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you. For that reason we suggest you start the course and book, and after a time you can tell him what you are doing. But I do not want you to think it will pass, and everything will automatically be okay. Completely stop any and all criticism, complaining, and expectations. Dear Silvia I am glad you sent this because your marriage should not be lost because of this mishap.Next
For the most part I think it is sound advice, but there are situations in which I think it must be tweaked. None of it changed the behavior. Since he has been doing it for a long time before we met I would not expect that he would drop it immediately. He is not of sound mind, but is damaged; and you do not know how badly. Yes, tread carefully, but don't be so quick to judge him.Next
He is also 10 years older than me might i add. You will be able to forgive him, and your life will not end. The guys I have met said they had fun or enjoyed my openness or honesty. But they succumb to temptations. Lana Of course I am very happily married, have children, and so with every coach we bring into The Marriage Foundation.Next
You may get defensive and angry. But those approaches cannot work. Last year something happened that seemed strange which resulted in me snooping on his phone and I had reason to be suss. Neither of you are educated enough to raise children properly, and perhaps not mature enough either. I still help with minor things like clip nails. He cancelled said he didn't need to go and it was my thing to do.Next
He feels betrayed, abused, and hopeless. I am not sure how to approach him. Our thinking and teachings can help you save your marriage. I could tell he was sorry and did not want to break up with me. Don't only look for obvious websites.
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