One is for real love and one for family and status. Now I m feeling so lonely and he is having dinner with his family. Is your love life falling apart? When such a relationship ends its mostly the girl friend who is left alone and the married man carries on with his life. He said he is very lucky to have two very good and understanding women to love him! I promise it will make all the difference in the world! I met her even before I got married and proposed to her. While I cannot speak for him, the only thing that has kept me from finalizing my divorce is money. In all likelihood, this relationship will be short-lived and not serious. As those problem must eventually re-emerge, the subsequent breakups are likely to happen more quickly.Next
You say he is a good man any woman would want, including his ex. Moreover you have to recognize that you have no emotional, legal or financial claim. We met up last night and after I left I cried and told myself that I deserve more than this. I'm not opposed to seeing other men, but I haven't run across anyone who interest me or who were interested in me either I guess. In extra-marital affairs, you can't expect to get any of these. Allow the breakup of the marriage to evolve naturally, without your interference. When you have a man abusing your emotions, don't feel guilty about seeing what else is out there.Next
There is nothing favorable in seeing a married man. I have tried to end it and tell him to go and try at home with his wife. Right after he finally married her 10 years later, he had a massive stroke because of all the constant overdosing on steroids and he was left totally disabled and paralysed down one side of his body, and no longer the muscley body builder that she desperately wanted and she could no longer have the life that she wanted so badly enough to steal it off me. I dont want to be the reason he is getting a divorce! He will never leave his wife family for me or anyone; so I have heard him say to me before. We are now available for someone who will give us all their time.Next
They can make a person very aggressive. Then after a month, something urged me to research about him. I know already that he won't be able to handle not seeing me until August. And every time you ask him to walk out of his relationship, it would just lead to frustrated tears. Knew I was in love the first night we met.Next
I can expect no more from him than a fortnightly hook up at his convenience, all his commitment , love and priority lie elsewhere. I have first hand experienced the tragedy of an affair and reading this shit makes me furious. I do not know what can I do to have a second chance on our relationship, although the relationship is pretty young I feel like she backed up just a couple of days before taking that feeling of guilty by what was going to happen. And we have love and trust but I'm not unrealistic I know he most likely won't leave. I look at his photo sometimes and miss him.
You sound so sad and hopeless. Men must finish one thing before they begin another! Several years ago I had a married man persue me for 2 years before I relented, and became his sideline girlfriend for almost a year, before it became obvious he and his wife were lookong for an excuse to break them up. This woman ended up getting what she deserved like the last woman. Please get some professional help to get beyond your bitterness. There was no talk of divorce, but another woman literally jumped him the day we were separated It seems highly unlikely that she wasn't around before. It must really disturbing for both the persons involved in the relationship to know that people are talking bad behind their backs. What do we say to his brother? It is so painful to be told all the horrible truths.Next
Not to mention that he must be seriously lacking in backbone to continue to stay with such a woman. We are away river rafting this weekend, something we both never done it and it will be our first time. I do not believe all women that fall for a married man have lower self esteem or are poorly educated, or horrible women , sometimes your life can lack excitement and when someone makes you feel special unlike anyone else you want to hold on to that. I preparing my self for when that day come. But I feel like if he is still going to be with his wife maybe I should date others too.Next
Totally ironic but it was a totally friendly conversation because so much time had passed since that happened. I was pregnant twice; with his children and he begged and begged for me not to have them. I am now beginning to reach clarity, I think, I just feel so scared to end it. Gawd, do i feel like shite today. I found his linkedin account then his fb. You have to actually do something vindictive to be vindictive and I made a point of never doing that in any way whatsoever. I've been involved with a guy recently.Next