Partly because I hate to admit that I could be, or tend to be, the one in my circle of friends with older men interested in me. I found him sweeter and more reliable, that's all. I always found that I relate to people older than myself. Has anyone hassled you about your age differences? Being with a man who can talk about how he felt in a given situation and what he did to turn it around is not only impressive but consoling and helpful, even if my situation is not entirely the same. This is the last thing I planned on in my young life, believe me.Next
Wow i just wanted to scream when i was reading all the disses this person was saying about older men. Also he has a girlfriend…I know i know this is an awful admission but sometimes i just have to tell someone. Anonymous I think you should go for it. If your boy-friend treats you well and is not controlling, or tries to isolate you from your friends then it doesn't matter what other people think. I hope I made my point and myself clear.Next
Ive been dating a guy 23 years older than me for nearly two years and guess what. If im happy, that's what should matter to her but hey in the meantime, I really wanna see how things go for us. I'm happy to see 15 + year age gaps, I am not alone in pursuing the older man. But when your partner is 63+ and you're not there is a very good chance that you will end up being a caregiver much sooner than you planned. So did Catherine Zeta-Jones, Katie Holmes and Calista Flockhart. So many dead end dates and wasting time until I was on the phone canceling my membership and requesting my profile be removed and a message popped up right that moment. Then came my ex-fiance a year after.Next
No man wants to date a woman that wants him for his money. I also know someone my same age whose father was 75 when we graduated college and it created a lot of issues for her and her mom, who was a lot younger. As long as you have self respect for yourself, meaning: you care for your body by what you choose to put in it and put on it. But i told my parents they said ok you have my blessings. While you are spending hours in the hospital because he has fallen ill, your friends will be sharing stories about their baby showers and their children's sports activities. I am in my late thirties seeing a man in his early fifties. I earned my keep since I was 18.Next
The internet is not a great way to get involved with somebody so much older than you. I didn't mean to equate them, but someone had asked if the converse ever happens and that's the closet thing I've seen. The only opinion I really care about is my mother's, but I am very sure she will disapprove because he is about the same age as her. I think that men in their 40s are better marriage-material, and not just for money, oh no! Its a scary situation to be in. I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 38. These are all questions I had to ask myself when I was faced with a similar situation. Anonymous I am 47 and in a relationship with a man 66.
Don't know where to put my finger, but I'm crazy in love with the middle-aged man. I'm closer in age to his daughter than I am to him. And we were together for 5 yrs. Would you like it if someone told you that you couldn't be with the one you couldn't imagine life without? All of the intangibles aside, like values, maturity. If this gentleman truly makes you happy then disregard the naysayers and follow your own heart. It's truly different dating someone older because they just get it. Once a girl hits that 25ish age she has lost her little girl looks and thats really what men want.
These tragic stories are all over the internet. I'm started to doubt myself whether there is something wrong with me neurologically. Wouldn't ask for it any other way. He's tender -- physically affectionate and a great listener. I can grow in ways I never imagined before. I decided it was time to leave but in the midway, I went back to make sure the restaurant was closed. I don't see this as a big deal because I have lived life and experienced things.Next
So I know she would have an opinion. While men by nature tends to be hypogamous, marries downward, and polygamous. The reason being, is there are older men who target younger women. Listen to your daughter about what kinda man he is to her. In our church, several couples have an age difference but all seem like very good matches. I am very maternal and traditional and he is more than willing to give me the life i want.Next