Yes, we all want stability, and to not stress over being able to afford things that we want, or want to provide for our children, like a good education. She's retired and she depends on me, but at the same time, I really depend on her. I needed to experience all there was to experience so I could choose. And so to whatever extent these men and women had genetically influenced personal qualities that made them favor such a relationship, those qualities are pruned from the gene pool. But I advise her how slowly she can get back on her feet. Its refreshing to see an article like this durring a time period where pubescent girls are used in sexualy provocative advertising.Next
But given who I was in my 20's and 30's, and still am today at nearly 60, I've apparently never been a match for what the North American Menopause Society describes is the case for the majority of women in their 40's and 50's. I think most guys are both realistic and practical, I think most guys like to stay in their comfort zone and be with someone who shares their own values and views on life, regardless of age, For my opinion, girls are far better to marry a guy several years older. There are few children born from these relationships compared to men, like Donald Trump, who have batches of kids with each of the younger wives. Neither of us has any other kids. I keep in mind that her dad is 77 and her mom 58, but our age gap is much bigger.Next
I still get girls that I consider too young, that would love to go out with me, constantly. I agree with you that many guys are in better shape later on in life. And actors will always have a fanbase, so the comparison is quite unrelated in my view. The more poverty you live in, the more important that security and status becomes. Her life is a china shop, and she fears the proverbial bull. After having sex for 30 years, men in their 50s can get bored with the same old every night.Next
At age 80, the average man is moribund or dead. My husband of 13 years is 8yr. When you get to be 40 or 50, I hope I will still be alive , I would like to hear your perception of this then. Are we going to beat them in a straight-up Spartan Race, Cross Fit competition, or marathon? Older men who want younger women are not creeps. So it makes perfect sense that men are driven to younger women who have the lowest risk factors. Remember, what 50-year-old men want in bed is different from what younger men expect. I had known her since I was little and she was one of the few adults I respected.Next
So, for example, anecdotally I've observed that more women than men ages 35 to 40 want to do do extreme such as rock climbing, run marathons, or do triathlons. His work schedule is usually full, so he doesn't have time to constantly shift around the time and date of his dates. First, I've had 30 year old men before, when I was 30. I expect intelligent, articulate discourse and I expect men who can spell three and four letter words. I am forever grateful that Joe entered my life and was able to share a part of his with mine.
I can tell once that I guy asked me out and he let me know in a discret way tht he couldn't pay for me and I go out with him the same way causeit demosntrated to me good intentions that he wanted to do but he couldn't and I went out with him the same way cause it was respectful. So it not all about money its a goodtreatment that means you care and value a woman. They are normal, and women just need to get over it! First marriage was for 13 years and yielded my 2 sons, second marriage was for 18 years and established my financial security and business. I know two couples with age differences of 17 and 20 years. Not the ytpe they would actually choose to date.Next
It's definitely uncommon to see women taking the initiative to approach men, but it does happen more often than you might expect. I guess when younger women constantly see you with younger mates, they wait their turn to live the experience. I am over 50 and if some guy in his 30s want to get to know me I try to be open minded and not look at his age. In contrast, if he had married someone five years older than him, they're more likely to be health peers and to fade away together. It makes people bitter when they feel they followed the rules and they are not happy. I still find a fitness model the most beautiful to look at.Next
When he was a boy, growing up in the 1960s, his parents taught him how to be a gentleman. I know that 40 and 50 year old guys can still be good looking if they take care of their selves and maintain good health. Unfortunately, women are somewhat shallow like most men and have physical requirements, as well as leadership and mental requirements. Then once you provide the security the other things such as your good looks, good sex, help with cleaning etc. Men appreciate a woman who understands her own sexuality and for good reason. Now she is midway up the career ladder and consumed with climbing even higher.