And it's not like I don't see it from their point of view—if I was single and 35 I might be mean to a young girl stealing from my dating pool, too! She doesn't look her age at all, but she has two kids single mom. I know what I want and how to get what Iwant out of life. I think you know what you want to do, so I say best of luck! She misses her old crowd, now mostly married and saddled with kids. What harm can come from an arrangement like this? A 30-year-old woman has way too much going on in her life, way too many experiences. No one reads posts with boring, generic titles.Next
If you love him and he loves you - go for it. All the men I have met around my age are crazy. I was disappointed in her for doing it. It may not seem fair, but that's just how the chips fell in nature. I don't have issues with the age difference, per se.Next
But I think we can try to understand, and I think we lose that — along with the chance to really love people — when we try to shove them into categories. He just needs someone to share his love pad with. Wow, okay I'm replying to this one because basically I'm a 25 year old guy in love with a 35 year old woman. Michael went to the bathroom, and immediately they started in. Even ten years one can start rationalizing.Next
He ordered four shots of Jameson. I look back and say hmmmm wtf was I thinking, but reality was he pushed this to happen. Sure, a lot of compatibility is being at the same place in your life and liking the same things. I might be over thinking this, but I generally don't see anyone being worried about a 3 year gap unless there are some other problems or concerns that you're not sharing. I gave him my number and he hailed me a cab. I really do like her but I'm not trying to keep telling her that because maybe it won't do any good. Even the rest of my own family.Next
I have always been the same since I was a teenager. Anyway, my boyfriend is 18 years older than me, because I have always been into older guys. If everything you say about being perfect for each other and having a deep connection and you want same things in life, then why should age matter? She is a sympathetic ear for the emotionally conflicted, bridesmaid extraordinaire, the fun auntie who buys the best birthday presents, and on-demand brunch buddy for her gay friends. I'm a 26 year old man, I have a huge crush on a 38 year old women. The heck what people may say, relax and enjoy the ride. Even she references how she feels like I'm going to leave her one day because she's getting older but if I didn't put any thought into that then I wouldn't have married her in the first place.Next
Although your viejito may not want to have sex all the time, he may just teach you a thing or two. The only thing I see going wrong is he is very young, just learning life, youth is on his side - he may wander. Yet soon after that, the slippery slope becomes 44 and 24, which can lead to Lolita situations and other felonies. I read an interesting forum post on it and decided to make a short video about it. They say that women mature at a faster rate than men, and I have to agree.
Either he was self-conscious about dating a younger lady, or he tried to pay for everything because he thought I expected it. I cannot give him children, I am over raising mine! You might also really have some fun together, and hell, if it gets serious, women live longer than men anyway. As for this man you have an interest in. But I believe you see this with women as well. I envy that you have so much to learn and experience. Be ready to ditch the old geezer stereotype. Not to mention he is very smart and owns his own sucessful business! Not looking for money he isn't rich at all.Next
After all, if you're older you had a head start. I have tremendous amounts of experience! I live a very exciting life, full of adventure and experiences, that they want to be a part of. I am fully prepared to take care of him. Heck I was layed off from my job, and though he cares about me, he hasen't judged me not even for a minute that I have been layed off! In addition, there is the fact that he is going to begin having health issues and just being older, are you prepared to take care of him and be his nursemaid when you are in your forties and beyond? He looks younger than his age and seems to be in shape. They sound like a bunch of idiots. She has mastered the art of being the plus-one, the person who fills in at the concert when a date backs out at the last minute.Next
The chemistry is off the charts. The other reasons are mainly psychological. Because older men are sexually experienced and mature, they are open to communication and try not to let their egos get in the way. Just my tastes there, not a belief that it can't happen. Demi and Ashton are 15 years apart, but filthy rich and famous so they can get away with it. Just like any other relationship. No, believe me I have thought everything through.