I texted him yesterday because I left my glasses there the last time I was there and I need them for school tonight. Eventually i found out that he had baby son. Let's say I heard some people complaning, he loves this other child more than mine. That night she undressed down to her t shirt with no panties, I had a 2 bed hotel room so I told her she can have the first bed, I'll take the other, instead she got into my bed wanting to finally have sex with me. To her one day waiting till my back was turned while I was caring for our children, being that she had no interest in being a mother to them, she would slip out the door undetected until I seen her speed off with the dude she was cheating on me with for the past 8 months,thats disappearing weeks upon weeks, looking for her to find out she was shacked up in the bay area with some thug, I have had no romantic or intimate relationship with my wife for weeks upon weeks, crying every night because I yearned for her heartbroken, in pain, lonely, tired, and finally bored of the constant scheming and cheating, she financially ruined us to the point I was homeless with my children. Breaking up isn't an option for us.Next
She calls the police on us every time we drive off the property and claims we are speeding or drinking. I would like to hear so many opinions, because at the moment I can not accept that my boyfriend have a child with another woman. With this kid, you will always have a fake bond because it is not yours. Let him help take care of the child if he chooses and him and his lie can stay far far far away. He has to let her know that he has taken an interest in another person. We also give you tips on how to deal with your boyfriend's baby mama.Next
Or should we let the court decide if she deserves more freedom and trust? I struggle with it because he was with me the entire time of her pregnancy and if he had doubt in his mind that this would happen then why drag me through it? Well, I had believed that with the first ex he had his way and he did what he wanted but I learned that wasn't the case. Sparks were going off between Sara his wife and Hagar baby mama. So many women have entered into relationships with men who have children thinking it would not be a factor only to discover it can be a major source of conflict in the relationship. If he truly cared and truly wanted his baby and the baby mama to be happy, he'd change his bad habits and do what's right for them, not ditch them at their most desperate time of need! Not only that, but because he has had to soothe little ones when they are sick and gives hugs and kisses on a daily basis, this guy understands the power of touch. But I sat there the whole night in deep thought. She knows that, to him, the kids come first as they should , and may use this fact to overpower your presence in his life.Next
Never the less, I was very happy with him. They're exhausting to be around specifically because they tend to like being the center of attention. Baby mamas are very evil and jealous especially when the man doesn't want them and is in a growing relationship with someone else. Well sorry hun you are going through this situation. Till i tried to file a divorce which the California courts do not make it easy being there are children involved and my wife is cheating on me with the next guy so to have her served would take months of investigation on her whereabouts which costs time and money.Next
I am well educated with four children by my ex husband. I really respect the fact that he is trying to take his responsibility as a father and trying to be in his daughters life because he didn't want the baby from the beginning. Then have you thought about the fact that the reason they are not together is because there is something crazy about this woman? I recently found out that my bf got his bm a small gift. A has zero time or tolerance for your bullshit, and power to her for it. This is particularly true if he had multiple children with another woman. I am not in yours, but I am married to someone who already had a daughter with another woman. Also the biggest mistake Babydads make is not cutting sexual ties with Babymom? And he doesn't want to not know his son or have his son not know him.Next
So many women much older than you continue on for years on emotional rollercoaters and drama filled relationships instead of choosing to end the cycle. The daily duties of disciplining his kids will fall primarily on the mother and your partner, which means you are left free to plan all of the fun stuff. The ex wife kept bothering him with insignificant things. She is not going to play her role or know her place. There's no reason he should still have a phone with this woman and if you suspect that something inappropriate is going on between them, you have every right to because he hasn't shown you otherwise. Should he risk the girl's safety and well-being and try it out and see how it goes, that what it feels like.Next
It means she's serious about you, and she's serious about bringing you into her world. I had broken up with whom I thought I was going to marry. The drama All women have drama but the ones with kids take it to another level. She is not going to treat me like shut after all I've done to support her through this pregnancy even though it ain't my child. She admit that she still love my Fiance and there will be no way that I will get to meet his daughter. These are all red flags that should be taken heart attack seriously. But I'm worried that he now blames me.
The next day I heard he dropped out of college sometimes i think its because i walked out of the exam hall not even asking him how his exam went? She didnt know that it been more than 5 times he cried and said didnt want to go home with his mom because he hated him. Sometimes your role will be the back seat and sometimes it should be front and center. You got your kids and two baby dady who are no where to be found. But you gotta move forward babygirl. No specifying majority demographics or excluding minority groups based on demographics. How about the girlfriend who does ignore her and shows her grace? I don't know what to think and I'm kind of confused on what's going to happen.Next
Why is she so freaking desperate for his attention and affection? We found out that we still love each other and we agreed to come back together and make the best of it. . It's fair to ask for him to set boundaries with his daughter's mom but be sure you're not being petty when you do. I told him that if he want to stay in relationship with me. I would have to say that his baby mama and kid s is a package deal to a certain extent because you would have to put up with her for as long as you are with him. Downvote only to indicate that either a comment or post does not add to discussion; not to indicate disagreement. Believing that they could go through raising a child without a father, women started acting like the men in relationships.
Or does he only spend time with the kid until the crazy shows up? Try to not let your emotions get the best of you. If he does talk to her on the phone its quick responses. He's letting you know, loud and clear, that you're barely on his radar. Why would you want to shack up with a married man. I showed her respect by asking her to go eat with the kids to showing her that my kids and their kid are playing well together but she denied.Next