It is not alright to date family. People always want something to gossip about and probably will talk about you for a few days but then it will be yesterdays news, just dont let it bother you. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click. This is very strange to us and we can't believe that we both feel the same way. Angela1234, that is good advice and I know that's exactly what I need.Next
Although we are dating in secret now, we know that one day we will have to come clean, but until then, we do whatever makes us happy, not what makes the family happy. I mean I could date other guys and he could date other girls. If this is your boyfriend's role model, your future with your boyfriend does not sound particularly positive. Seriously, people must understand and accept that things sometimes just don't work, and that is no good reason too keep yourself from bigger and better things. Is it worth it to pursue things further? I met a man and fell in love with him. If you both want it, and if both are willing to accept the consequences that you already know there will be, and more or less, what they will be , then go for it. The risk now is that your cousin might hear about it from someone else, so the best thing would be to tell her.Next
Every time she has mentioned him you have said nothing about your seeing him all the time. I felt so bad and I could see he was hurt. It's not my fault were cousins, it my heart that gives me these feelings. What can I say I was in deep love. There is no problem with dating your ex's cousin. She said something back that detroyed my heart! It is sick and unhealthy and a dangerous practice for the human race.Next
It may feel a bit scary to do that but there is really no point in trying to have a relationship with her ex-boyfriend if this would hurt her deeply and cause havoc within the family. She seemed to be over the break-up quickly and back to normal with a couple of days. Request posts must request specific advice for how to handle a situation. We broke up in the middle of 2008. There are plenty of other guys out there. If it's meant to be, then whatever. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being with your cousin, a hundred years ago lots of girls married their cousins, have a trawl through history.Next
A reader, anonymous, writes 19 August 2007 : Whether he's your cousin or not, it doesn't really matter aslong as you're both in love. You don't choose love it chooses you! Tagged as: Question - 29 September 2005 6 Answers - Newest, 18 August 2010 A female , anonymous writes: I am a recently divorced. Settling for your cousin is just that. He didn't reply to me though, even though he was online! I think it will be healthy for me to break up with him and move on. I'm really mad at my cousin, and I don't think she has any right to be mad at me, since she's over him. A yacht lighter No cousin on any planet would date a cousins ex.
Him and her are always together especially right now her cars messed up and so he takes her everywhere so I pretty much never get to be with her without him. On top of that she and I share a lot of common interests. Also, he takes care of her and wouldn't entertain if he and his girlfriend have made a plan for going out and I interfere saying take me for lunch, take me fir dinner, drop me here, drop me there, take me for shopping, etc. Finally I thought maybe I can tell her, maybe it'd help, maybe she likes me back. Have you been feeling a little resentful or a lot? If u were to get into this relationship I believe it wouldn't work. I felt something like she had feelings back. I told them and they just laughed and called me names also.Next
After graduating college we moved in together. To be fully understood I need to give the history of the situation. If he includes you then be apart of his plans and he will feel like you are supportive which will help you to grow closer to him and will help you to understand why he has become like a care taker to her. I tell people you are not me and you are not him so mind your own business. So I guess I feel like I should go for it. I was so relieved at myself then for having walked right out of this mess. I can't even force myself to be interested in anyone else.Next
If he feels like how he act whenever we're together then shouldn't be at least try to call or text? All that matters is the love you both feel for eavh other. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's in accordance with our. I can't tell them because they would freak out! Either I'll miss her terribly or I'll be able to separate myself from her emotionally. Last night when I asked him if we could go to see the birds on that holiday, he very inconsiderately replied that he will go home. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! Only one person cannot keep trying. Ignore people who have a problem with it - they aren't worth your time.Next