I do believe if we met we would hit it off and yes it's possible I could fall in love with him. I also lead a team of 10 executive dating coaches who provide bespoke training and consulting. I'm not good enough with my mentality. I never really thought I'd get married, and I've never wanted children of my own, but now I've got a wonderful husband and a fantastic 19 year old stepdaughter. I will admit I am totally love- first part. They grow up and start to mature… Become pleasant to be around… …and unlike younger women, they have stopped giving men crap for no reason. I don't fixate on our age difference, and it makes me sad that he is worried about his friends and families' reaction to our relationship.
Becky I was an 18 year old virgin when I married my husband who was 41 at the time. Likely to be further in her career. I also worry that if things went wrong and the relationship didn't work it would be difficult to continue to work together …. Her only vice was a three pack a day cigarette habit that she started when she was 12 and still hasn't been able to kick until this day. But I give it my best so he knows I can handle it.Next
Its refreshing to see an article like this durring a time period where pubescent girls are used in sexualy provocative advertising. Thank you so much for sharing this! Her beauty is both inside and out and she Is not spoiled or arrogant about her beauty, how rare is that? In addition, it is often enough for young girls to get an invaluable experience that their peers are unlikely to give them. Instead, he sits right down and talks it through with me. My only thing is, my mom detests the fact that I spend lots of time on the phone with him, mainly bcuz of his age. I don't believe age is very important at all, I think what determines a great relationship is that both partners are of similar emotional maturity. Briena, are you sure this guy is not gay? For it to work, I will need to move to her country which at this point in time , I am not able to do.Next
Be it chores, time or the other dish that I wanted to taste at the restaurant we are at, I love to share. Sometimes, she guided me to making better decisions, like the time I thought I wanted to be more of a grown-up and smoke like her and my mom. I have had a few truly serious relationships with younger men, and I always get hurt. I think there are many beautiful women older than 40, but I can understand his concern because no matter what, someone is going to say something about the age difference, unless of course you guys choose to lie, or not disclose that information I mean, really it's your business anyway. I love this post and the comments other people have written as it has given me the strength to deal with my friends bitching attitude.Next
I love every moment I spend with him and I know its cliche to say. My boyfriend is…nine years older than me. Saving for the future, whether or not to procreate… all these pink elephants transpire the age gap! We clicked instantly and within a few months he had become the best friend I'll ever have. We didn't realize the huge age difference at first… I guess I acted a bit older than I really am, and he acted much, much younger than he really was! Young body This is a very weighty reason for choosing a young girl. He has two boys, they are 18 and 17 and I am 20…. Superiority Even if the difference in age is 2-3 years, psychologically a man feels that he is older and a girl is younger. I had known her since I was little and she was one of the few adults I respected.Next
Everyone in my circle told me to just enjoy each other as long as it lasts, as if to say this is not long term. No, I am not tempted to spank him. I'm a highly spiritual woman, and believe in a higher power. You'll be middle aged, stuck with this old man. He has 4 children the oldest one is a boy 12 years old and the youngest one is a gal that's 5 years old. I grew up loving him all my life.Next
A good point is everyone in my husband's family are all still married, make lots of money, are all the same age and they are all the most miserable people I have ever known. He has lots of dating and other experience. It makes the situation more hard. Must be older bitter men posting these things. I even bug him about his looks if I see that he is gaining a bit of too much weight. We both desperately want to be together, I have never loved anyone more. It has been difficult to get past the awkward glances and stares at restaurants.
Sadly I agree with martyfellow. Mainly about the liklihood or possibility of him getting ill and needing long-term care, and me spending the next 10-20 years of my life till I'm 60 taking care of him and not being able to do anything. You can reach career and personal coach Marty Nemko at. The older woman has a daughter 50 yrs old and a granddaughter 30 yrs old. I've always been mature for my age, and it just came naturally to date men in their 30s. She persuaded him to move to her country.Next
And I'm so paranoid about blabbing this to people that I'm not even signed in as my usual poster identity. It makes people bitter when they feel they followed the rules and they are not happy. It's less drama since she's been there done that im a no drama please, kinda guy. Take a calm pause every now and then and correct the word choice you choose for that certain person in front of you. I don't know how I'm going to break this to my parents or introduce them. Anonymous Funkypuppy, I find it interesting that your brother's relationship with a woman three years his senior even qualifies to be in the same ballpark as relationships in which women are paired with decades-older men.Next