It was a Saturday or Sunday morning and I sauntered into the grocery store with my friends, carefree and unaware of who was waiting for me around the corner. The female he is with is a amazon who needs to date 7. Or possibly it's just an American thing, but I think in this case it's not - I can usually tell the difference between social programming and built-in wiring. He never brought it to my attention. Looking to meet some other people of limited stature? But I wanted to know how other people — namely, female-identifying people who date men — felt about the matter, so I polled the Revelist team, Twitter, and Facebook. From our conversations I gathered that we had a few things in common; we both love classic rock, are addicted to attending concerts, really enjoy road trips, like to practice sports, etc. I was younger and we didn't really go anywhere fancy.Next
I did my best not to show it, but I felt weird as feck. Great article none the less, just curious. What precisely would height change? In my mind, it's a turn-on when a guy is tall. If you are smart, you can make her feel good about herself in imaginative ways. They know what they bring to the table and they lay it out boldly for the girl to see.Next
It made me feel awkwardly self-conscious. But I have noticed that some women taller than me won't go out with me because they want to wear their heals. Sometimes I would catch us in the store window and try to shrink down a little bit. In 4chan terms, I had spilled the spaghetti from my pockets. Average height over here is quite high and I occanionaly do see women around my height.Next
I like that spot and to have girl taller than me. Radclieff looks average for a male. Focus on the positive, learn from and move on from the negative, and stay off the internet echo-chambers unless it is a positive influence. The corresponding feat, is to not be self-conscious about your height. I never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age.Next
I struggled for years with insecurity related to height. At 5'10, the average sized American guy at 5'8 - flat foot Im already bigger. Check it out at or email with any questions, comments or complaints. If guy finds girl taller than him attractive, you never know, he may be into it, but on the other side, he just maybe loves her appearance and doesn't care that much for height. I probably fell into the as a man I should be taller syndrome.Next
Stephen is the co-founder of Honest Pick-Up, a site dedicated to helping guys ditch their fears and anxiety and make their dating lives completely stress-free. I am now married and have 4 sons. I suggest the next time you want to kiss your giantess, you just grab her and kiss her, willy-nilly. Why 99% of men completely miss these signals and let cool, attractive women walk out of their lives every week, without even knowing it. Just treat her like you would any normal woman! It's not that shorter guys were less attractive to me, but more that I felt less feminine when I was the taller one. Learn to build your self-esteem and confidence just as you would your muscles in the gym, or your wardrobe to dress better.Next
Actually I never thought about 2, height is nothing to be ashamed of. Opinions were pretty split, which surprised me. The reason I was rejected by all of these women was my height. It was gonna be fantastic and I thought we were absolutely gorgeous together. Who was I to tell her what shoes to wear? I must admit i never thought that a few inches could affect my masculinity in this manner and several days latter she wore hi heels the height difference became even more of a challenge to my masculinity and she sensed it which really humiliated me that I was this shallow of a man. I think the trick is trying to find a tall woman who does not care about that kind of stuff, or who is willing to do something different than what everyone else is doing. Women are a lot more aware of that than we grunting club-dragging types.Next
I actually found that the best way to be less insecure around tall people is to be around tall people! I'm not one to date casually, so I figure that if my 5' self dates a short guy, and I were to have a son from said relationship, the poor child wouldn't have a chance. Moreover, turns out we had way more in common than I could have anticipated; midway through dinner, we were thinking about flying to San Diego for Comic Con, but we settled for a concert this Friday. Right now, I am laughing at the situation. Learn more about Stephen and his business at the bottom of the post. Don't mention it, don't make an issue out of it, don't condone discussing it, stand firm in that it's silly to even think about it for either of you. It was graphic and over-the-top but he said it in a no-nonsense way that was hilarious.
I am dating someone who I care for dearly, but recently he seems a bit conscious about his height and mine. A Daily Practice There are things about you that women will find attractive. I wonder what's so good about him? Logically I knew there was no reason to be upset. At first she would tell me that my looks made up for my height which I found sweet and still do! Just cause a girl is shorter doesn't mean her vajayjay is tighter, a lot of the guys said the taller girls were tighter. And then the insecurity started to creep on her and me. As a woman who is amost 6 feet tall I want to tell you that this question is one I've struggled with for a while. But in all honesty short guys tend to have over-the-top personalities.Next
Tall girls are beautiful, short girls are cute, medium girls are homely, tall guys are hot, short guys are cute, medium guys are still just cute. Reading this story tugged my heart strings cause I wish that coulda been me. As a child I felt strange because I was so tall, like an outsider. As a matter fact of all my friends are on the tall side. Come the time of the date, I am waiting at the door of the restaurant we selected, when I see her crossing the street. While logically we both understood that there was no reason height should have been an issue, there's some pretty powerful social conditioning to be overcome. I think it's totally in the attitude.