If a man cannot put their entire selves into a relationship with you or anyone else then how can you expect to rely on them in difficult times? Your a little concerned about datin a 20 year old when your 29. All guys see you as young and inexperienced. Time creates wisdom — but it also creates responsibilities and complications — mortgage, kids, career, etc. I was her first date, first kiss, etc. The thing is, he can steer me in the right direction. My husband of 13 years is 8yr. Not once did we go to clubs to drink,dance and make merry like all my girls were doing.
What do you say about the reverse? And, I can tell you from experience, it was one of the greatest events of my life. While an established man would not, and would be able to take care of her and support a family. I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman — physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? We started dating when I was 21. While clubbing and hanging out seem ideal for a younger man, most 40 year olds don't fancy such. To me, that is a predjudice, no different than saying, you don't think orientals should date White men, or Indian's. Most of my ladies have bought expensive presents, gifts, and done what they can, to show their appreciation, and love for me that cannot be faked. They dismiss contemporary musicians as not good enough.Next
We were together 5 years, 5 months, and 5 days and had planned to get married. As far as the only wanting one thing, that is a load of crap, we were waiting until marriage, so there, sex is not the only reason an older man would date a young girl. Be prepared for him to already know what you're going through and think of you as a little silly when you tell him you have absolutely no clue as to how to solve the problem at hand--simply because he knows you've overlooked the solution twice already. My prince charming liked daytime dates. However if we apply the rule it ends up being a 37 year old dating a 60 year old. Of course I pretended to have interest in such things.Next
They will even send you videos of heart breaking music like kukataliwa ni kubaya or stella wangu. He wore expensive ankle length boots that no man in my village or within my circles could afford. Ii am responsible for my own house hold and don't ask for a handout. That the older man has more life experience and should have more wisdom is precisely why they shouldn't be preying on naive, fresh-faced innocents who have their whole adult lives ahead of them. Things nose-dived when I learned some truths about a man several years my senior and a 40 year old for that matter. I think that a relationship can work even if the woman is 10 years younger than the man, particularly if the man looks young for his age. I live a very exciting life, full of adventure and experiences, that they want to be a part of.Next
We are still good friends, many of my friends are still friends with her, I am good friends with many of her friends, and we both still have many friends obtained together. Hi there, this in response to Cowboy Bob. I was disappointed in her for doing it. Bob, you are nuts if you think that the typical 25-year-old woman prefers a man in his 40s or 50s to a man closer to her own age who is maybe in his late 20s. Be prepared for him to either want children very much or to not want them at all, ever. A man in his early-to-mid 20s will drink and have a good time on the weekend.
It can be something that can just be a week or two or three or a month or four months or a year. Let me not talk about the depressing music I listened. When you get to be 40 or 50, I hope I will still be alive , I would like to hear your perception of this then. This is why you have to have firm beliefs and standards. Maturity level is high for older men. They will never get the chances to travel, ride horse, Harley's, go to all types of events, etc, that I can provide, with a young man, starting out, their age. My ex-girlfriend did not have to work, she completed her degree, we traveled the world, and completed a number of her bucket list items.Next
It broke my heart to know that my 40 year old man doesn't fancy babies. I'm not saying that older men are better because they are more mature which, obviously, they are but I'm saying that there will always be someone out there that wants to take advantage of you despite their age, race, or wealth. While I was ready to hold it all up and be there for this 40 year old, the unexpected happened. I know many smoking-hot middle-aged people who are emotional teenagers. There is no animosity or ostracization. The crotch wants what it wants. I understand her, she understands me.Next
Poor me who was only 26 and without even a bicycle learned about all this through friends. He liked watching international news and football all the time. The second you go into salesman mode when you meet somebody is the second you give any and all power away. Older men know what they want and how to get it, for the most part. He feared aging like how most mortals fear death.Next
One of these men is living his nightmare, his daughter, the same age as my now ex-girlfriend, was impregnated by her peer boyfriend, and now she, her husband, and their 2 children live with my friend, both of them work part time for minimum wage, and have no apparent future. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men. It is up to you to be mutually happy with the person you date. I'm not gonna think twice about that. To him, children are not little bundles of joy. It's okay to be attracted to older men, as long as you can stand firm for what you believe.Next