Q: No one I date wants to get serious! This is coming from a younger woman who accidently stumbled upon this site. After a year, most people know a great deal about each other. However I knew of the website and I was able to see his profile when I got home. We are both legally separated. Someone who will appreciate what my age and wisdom brings to the partnership. But some days it feels like he is giving 100% other days not so much. I know the answer to this question can best be answered by me, but as someone who can look at my situation much objectively than I can, should that be enough for now? It would put the onus on the guy to take a stand.Next
Tell him you are having doubts about your relationship. In fact, you're basically the only friend each other has. And these men are athletic, fit, attractive and successful. That author would be attacked immediately. I am over my marriage and am ready for love again. I also attempted to lose my virginity to him. I felt like maybe he does care because every time I get busy, he starts to freak out.Next
How do I not be intimate without making him feel like I dont like him? He put my mind at ease that although his timetable is not the timetable I would have chosen at the same age it is what he is comfortable with and what he is confident about. Wish I could have though of that in my younger days! My sisters husband of 23yrs dumped her for someone 3 yrs older than their daughter…. So that would mean I as a female should be dating someone that is 100 years old according to this article. He should be integrating you into his life meaning, taking you out, bringing you to his events, etc. You have to remember that this time what you are looking for is not clear. Life tbl Brig you might try dating a few men who are just a bit younger since you say you look younger.Next
Promises that never took place. This was, I believe, part of the problem…. I figure if God wants me in a relationship he will plant a man in front of me. Perhaps her excuses have become self-fulfilling. However, I would very much like someone to share my life with me more than just on the weekends. Please help me in figuring this puzzle in my head! He can have a great weekend with you, and then still be open to meet someone new if just the right person comes along on the dating site. Over the years I have changed as a person.
If they meet someone and apparently things are going well, so what is up with men who need to see or chat with other women? But i think its because were are still in college and living with our parents and not independant yet and studies should be our priority. Unless he is visiting near a Sunday, meeting friends will be hard too. Everything seems to be on his terms and on his time. He invited me to stay at his place and we again had a great time, very easygoing, no tension or uncomfortable feeling at all. Which is why I beg you: please don't tell him how you feel. Today, a reader wonders why the guy she's dating isn't making a move. This is all good and everything but the thing that bothers me is he says this summer has to be about him, he needs time to better himself and make himself who he wants to be.Next
She needs to be clear that shes trapped in the honeymoon stage because thats where he wants to live. He said he wanted to casually date but eventually become serious. Those rare gems who value women with age and experience are just that — rare! As for him still having an online dating profile the only negative thing I could find about the dude , I will confess that I'm engaged and still have one. Sure, they can date younger women, but many chose to date those closer to their age. Mostly the male partner cheated but in some cases it was the woman.
Never initiate to call, email or see him. Plenty of Fish on the other hand? He does everything with you, yet he feels because he's going away that it's all a waste? We don't cuss at each other or call each other names whatsoever. This was hard for me to hear mostly because I want one, and was under the impression he did. I just want opinions on whether this is all just a joke. I hope things keep going in the right direction! But always in the back of my mind it has been bothering me that i am inexperienced because he has been around the block and would leave me for someone who is great in the bedroom. I am alsooo very very shy around him because i like him sooo much and i feel sooo out of place even when doing stuff in the bedroom.Next
Sounds like there is not enough love in the world. Still, I find it hard to walk away. Any thoughts to my predicament? That makes it more difficult to get to know people. He is also focusing on his sobriety and I have some background with that as well and realize that comes first. I haven found the right one yet, but I see a lot of similar ages people getting together even though men and some women dream about getting someone much younger. Women waste years on men who said they want a casual relationship on their terms only — and then claim to be shocked when it turns out he was telling the truth.Next